7- You are resilient
No matter how perfect your life seems to be going there will always be setbacks and problems even major disappointments, it is only natural that when this happens you will be upset, but the manner in which you express your feelings identify the actions to take and move on with life shows your level of emotional maturity.
Emotional maturity inspires you to experience your feelings and emotions but it also helps you not to let them dictate your reaction because if you do the result will not be good after all emotions limit the options you are able to consider in solving a particular problem.
8- You are realistic
You are real with yourself you know that nothing good comes easy, you know that to be successful requires hard work and patience, you know that life is hard but you believe that you can cope with whatever life throws at you.
Nobody can predict the future but as the saying goes the best way to predict the future is to create it, so you believe in yourself and create the life you want.
This you know is not easy but you still set sail to achieve it, the most exciting thing about life is discovering what you want to be and moving towards that dream, however, in the process you have to be real with yourself and set goals that are realistic.
9- You are approachable:
The world today is currently filled with people who are only concerned about promoting themselves, it is not bad to promote yourself especially in the business world, but if you want to build successful business relationships then you need to focus on more than yourself.
Emotional maturity comes when you can easily get along with people.
When you find it easy to build relationships with people, they are comfortable reaching out to you and are never disappointed, caring about your relationships with others is communicated in the way you show concern in matters that affect them.
When people see this they see you are not only someone they can talk to but someone they want to talk to.
10- You believe in yourself
For you to be successful in any relationship you first must believe in yourself, when you believe in yourself, then you know how to live with your partner.
Emotional maturity places as much emphasis on the relationship you have with yourself as it does on your relationship with others because you can’t control people but only the way you relate to them, the same goes for the way people deal with you, they can’t control you but only how they relate to you, that is why self-belief is very important.
The opinion of people about you doesn’t matter, what matters is the way you believe in yourself.
There will always be people who will disapprove of you but if you remain confident in who you are and what you do, then you are emotionally mature.